what would be your advice to me for someone that just sent me this message: "I just spent the last few days really stuck inside my head. I’ve been feeling like nothing really matters anymore, although I know it does. I apologize for making things difficult, it’s not intentional. I guess I’ve been expecting more from you than you are able to give. I have been reaching out, asking you for the things I feel like I need, these things that should be coming naturally, but by me asking end up never coming at all. I have been carrying around a lot of hurt, not anger, just heartache. When I think about us last year at this time versus now it makes me wonder what happened. I won’t pretend that I have any answers. I am far from perfect. The only thing I know for sure is the way I feel about you. That has never wavered. There just doesn’t seem to be anything more I can say, so I have to stop talking and wait for you to figure things out on your own terms. You seem to be in good spirits today and that makes me happy. I hope you can get some rest and maybe have your day off tomorrow. Take much care love 💗" --- It sounds like the person sending the message is struggling with feelings of sadness and frustration in their relationship with you. It's important to take their words seriously and to have an open and honest conversation with them. Try to listen to their feelings and perspective, and express your own thoughts and feelings in a caring and non-judgmental way. If the situation is beyond your ability to resolve on your own, consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor. Communication and understanding are key in any relationship, and it's important to work towards finding a solution that works for both of you. [[Advice for Struggling Relationship 2]]