# Advice for Relationship Concerns > What would be your advice for someone who has a good friend that is trying to convince me that we should be in a long-term romantic relationship together. We live far away from one another and seeing each other is difficult. We also work opposite schedules and I have a lot of obligations I am committed to outside of work that take up a majority of my free time. We are a good match for one another but I'm concerned that our constraints will take too much of a toll on the relationship. My advice would be to: 1. Communicate openly with your friend about your concerns and what you are looking for in a relationship. 2. Consider if the long distance and scheduling conflicts are manageable for both of you and whether it is worth the effort to maintain the relationship. 3. Assess the level of mutual commitment and whether the relationship has a realistic chance of thriving despite the challenges. 4. Seek outside perspectives and advice from trusted friends, family members or a therapist if needed. 5. Take your time in making a decision, as it is important to prioritize your own needs and feelings. Ultimately, the decision to pursue a romantic relationship with a good friend should be based on what is best for both individuals and their overall well-being.